Sometimes i go out in nature. with myself or with friends. i find water extremely relaxing to be around.
Music that has a reggae sound has a really relaxing effect.
A cup of coffee or tea, and a bowl of herb. i find this combination to be very relaxing. if i smoke too often. it doesnt seem to be as effective. also too much coffee will make me edgy. kava tea is the most relaxing, and i try to save when im most stressed.
Meditation, i find tough to do on my own. planned group meditations i get excited, and eager to participate in. i dont find myself inclined to make time for meditation on my own every day, even tho i know it would help me.
i spin poi, when i first picked it up i found it very relaxing, i still do at times, but some reason i dont pick them up immediately like i did in the past. im sort of at a plateau in my skill level. i know i could progress, but not sure wut to practice.
how do you relax?